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Handling Emotional Attachment to Ideas and Managing Growth After Stepping Back

5 min readDec 18, 2024

This is the second episode of Ask Hartley Anything. In this series, I tackle real-world questions from engineers, product managers, and tech leaders — sharing advice and insights from my own journey in the trenches

In Episode Two of Ask Hartley Anything, I dive into two thoughtful listener questions.

First, I explore how to help team members detach emotionally from their ideas, focusing on fostering a growth mindset, encouraging collaboration, and coaching them to see the bigger picture. Then, I share actionable advice for maintaining and sharpening management skills when stepping back into an individual contributor (IC) role, such as mentoring, leading by influence, and journaling reflections.

Whether managing a team or growing as an IC, this episode is packed with insights to help you level up.

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John Hartley
John Hartley

Written by John Hartley

Engineering leader with a passion for building and growing teams. Writing about leadership and management in the tech industry. Director of Eng @ Curology

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